As some of you already know, I have been having some irksome new medical problems over the last couple of months. The pain and discomfort from this new problem became so bad recently that I thought it was time to bite the bullet and go see a doctor. Yes, doctors sometimes have to go see other doctors. I know that this is a shock to you. I'll give you a little time to process this fact before I go on. Go ahead. I'll wait right here.
OK, we're back. Now, as I was saying, I called my family doctor and discussed my concerns. I then remembered a nice fellow who practices in a specialty that I figured was the right one to address what ailed me, a fellow I have known for almost thirty years since I rotated through his clinic as a medical student many years ago. I called his office, secured an appointment, and went to see him this past Wednesday. I had typed up an explanatory note about my new problem, nicely dovetailed onto a brief medical history, my allergies, current medications and other items that I thought might help him to help me. He listened attentively, asked me questions, and examined me (yes, parts of the examination did indeed cause some pain, for you masochists out there). From there he sent me around the corner and down another hallway in his office to see the nice lady who drew many, many tubes of blood from my arm and proceeded to inflict more pain by x-raying the parts of my body that were already hurting just fine, thank you, without her telling me to move them into unnatural angles and hold my breath. All this being done, I was very nicely checked out, given a return appointment for a month, and sent on my way. I had looked forward to this appointment very much, as I was really in pain and not used to being in that state for extended periods of time. I was treated kindly, with compassion, professionally, and was made to feel that the staff there, from the receptionist to the doctor, all cared about helping to make me feel better as soon as possible.
That was all good, but that's not the point of this post. The doctor told me in the office that he would call me as soon as he had a chance to review the studies obtained on Wednesday. Now, I figured that he might call on Thursday, maybe on Friday, but I didn't hold my breath. I'm a doctor, too, remember? We get busy. We get behind. We forget. We have good intentions, but sometimes we fall short of our own self-imposed goals. When I didn't get a call by the close of business on Friday, I kept taking my Tylenol Arthritis and soldiered on, knowing that he would call me when he could. After making rounds of my own today, I headed to the gym to walk on the treadmill for an hour to work the kinks out.
Eight minutes before I was to stop my workout, I looked up from a particularly loud, rocking REM song to see my doctor standing by my treadmill, dressed like me in shorts and a t-shirt. "We need to talk", he said, mincing no words. My first reaction was, of course, that he was so concerned about my lab and x-rays that he knew I was going to die soon and he had tracked me down at the gym to tell me in person, fearing that I might expire in the car on the way home and deprive him of that opportunity to personally bring me the bad tidings. Of course, that was not the case. We walked down the hall together, and he reviewed from memory my lab values, findings on film, and then reviewed treatment options. "I had your chart at home, and I was going to try to call you at home tonight, but hey, here we are."
Although I do have a problem that I will have to deal with, the fact that my doctor saw me at the gym and took the time out of his own down time to pull me aside, tell me about the tests, allay my fears, and craft a mutually acceptable plan was, well, just remarkable in this day and age. Too many people talk about how medicine is no longer personal, that doctors don't care about their patients, and that once we go home, we never think about you or your problems again until we just have to. Obviously in my case today, this was not true. I came away from this encounter knowing that my doctor cares about me and my suffering, is trying his best to figure out what is wrong with me and how he can help me, and has my best interest at heart when he makes treatment recommendations.
After my experience this week, do you think I will refer people to this man for help when they need it? You bet.
Have you had similar experiences when a healthcare provider went the extra mile to show you they cared?
I read this a couple of hours ago, from the ER. I was there with my 21 year old son who had flu like symptoms. (flu test was negative)
ReplyDeleteWe have used the same hospital since his birth ..and rarely have a problem. Tonight, however, was exceptionally good.
How in the world they made a 21 year old with OCD comfortable with what and how, is beyond me. He went home (his own apartment) actually, from my observance, feeling empowered in his ability to take care of himself.
That ...was worth the trip to the ER.
Peggikaye
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ReplyDeleteExcellent.
That's the way it's supposed to work, but sometimes the rules and the paperwork and the protocols get in the way of providing excellent, compassionate care. I'm glad we both got that yesterday!
G
We had a doctor in this town I grew up in who didn't make appointments. Instead, he triaged patients in the waiting room (which meant the hypochondriacs usually had to wait a long time. He made house calls. 50 and 60 years ago, he made dads stay in the delivery room & sometimes help. But since he died in 1965, I can say definitely that no, I have never met a doctor who cared.
ReplyDeleteJude
ReplyDeleteI remember Dr. Dawson in the small mill village I grew up in. Very similar. Your last comment really hits home with me as a doctor. Ouch. Wonder how many of my patients have thought I didnt care about them...
Greg
My PCP is very much like an old time small town doc. He always calls back personally, not the nurse, and is available to talk to on the phone most weekends. He even called me many times during TJ's illness to check on him and me. He has continued to call me just to make sure I am not having a mental breakdown I guess. Seriously, I appreciate knowing that he cares about my health...mental and physical. I will miss him when he retires.
ReplyDeleteSandy
ReplyDeleteThat is wonderful to have someone like that. I know they're out there, but we just don't hear their stories as much any more.
Greg